So...How's it going?

[Nobody]

Yep, I'm taking that as a 12 sentence no.

Just like I thought.

Speak no more on these subjects until you are a participant, then you can talk, until then, silence is golden.....

Ah, no to that. You do not get to decide on who should speak, speak on what or that anyone's opinion should not be heard. So good luck with all the disappointment in your life.